Friday, April 18, 2014

The importance of space within a relationship.

Dear diary,

The importance of space with in a relationship is very IMPORTANT!

Everyone needs space.... meaning people, we the human race needs time to be alone, by ourselves.

Like married couples should have separate rooms, so that the guy can have his room and the girl can have her room.  And there should be nothing weird about it... i mean, if the couple feel like sleeping each other, than they can choose rooms.

anyways, just a thought.  But space is very important... is like this, when you see the same OLD people everyday, you can easily get sick of them or he or she... i'm just saying that the reality, the truth.  So that is why is important to get some space.

But having space does not mean that you abuse that time when being alone, like jerking off to Porn... hiding a secret laptop in your secret hideout... so having your own room does NOT mean you can go and CHEAT on your wife watching and getting addited to porn.  Cos it will hurt your wife and one will only start lusting after woman.  This is the truth, when people watch too much porn, you look at every woman on the street like a porn video!@

And as for wives, woman, i don't know what to say, but still don't think LADIEs, girls, woman are all INNOCENT..  I have a friend, who is now like a Taoist monk with long white hair now and before he became a Taoist monk, he was married to a "pretty" wife and one day, he caught his wife in bed with a man... so, instead of being violent, he became peaceful and found Taoist philosophy.  Is sad but true. 

RElationship is really hard, so again, is all about LOVE in the Bible way.  Cos i'm telling you the truth... i was never married, but i've seen so many people committing adultery, before i really thought adultery is all "normal".  But in fact it can lead to suicide, depression, manic depression, sadness, anger, murder, mass murder, you know all the crazy stuff..

And we tend to look at attractiveness first... so that is a mistake, cos Love is not about that. is about LOVE.  Meaning....you would this man or woman with all might and strength even if the person you love is handicap from a car accident.....   even if the person you love becomes burn and looks like jabba the hunt..... even if the person you love has become a sex or drug addict..... even if the person you love is not attractive at all anyone like the hot sexy mama or papa before..... even if the person you love has commited adultry BUT realizes the mistakes and true to the HEART wanting to change.....

So relationship is hard, but is worth it when there is LOVE (like the bible) and its true it take two fucking hands to clap.  So clap harder and stop fucking divorcing already, thats a shit trend!